By Hermoine Macura-Noble
Special to The Times Kuwait
Finding love and getting married has become far easier but also more complex in today’s digital world. On one hand, technology has made it easier to connect with people from across the world, giving us access to a wider pool of potential partners. On the other hand, the sheer volume of options available and the prevalence of online dating platforms has made it more difficult to navigate the dating landscape and find a meaningful connection.
One of the main advantages of technology is that it allows us to connect with people we might never have met otherwise. Dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have become increasingly popular in recent years, allowing us to swipe through potential matches and connect with people based on shared interests and values.
In addition to online dating platforms, there are also specialized matchmaking services that cater to specific demographics, including religious beliefs, professions or age groups. And while matchmaking has a long and rich history in some cultures, in today’s digital age, it has become increasingly popular with people from various backgrounds.
Gulf relationship alchemist also known as the Dubai Matchmaker; Christiana Maxion explains. “People are seeking meaningful connections with compatible partners. All of our clients are interested in meeting partners they intellectually and emotionally connect with. I have also seen an increase in clients looking for partners that have many accomplishments and successes they can celebrate alongside theirs.”
The demand for matchmakers is growing in popularity for various reasons however the most popular reason is it makes finding a life partner much easier. “The personalized matchmaking service that our team offers is popular in the GCC because our clients are used to a lifestyle of outsourcing, and we take care of everything. We interview, verify, vet and present potential matches, plan, book, confirm dates, manage communication and feedback for our clients in order to expedite the entire dating experience to find them success in their love life,” adds Maxion.
Fresh-faced and full of enthusiasm, Maxion is a global answer to Sima Aunty from the Netflix series, Indian Matchmaker. With a success rate of 96 percent, she shares her favorite love story. “One of my first clients sought my services as he believed he would never find a partner due to being on the autism spectrum. I am happy to say that he is now engaged to the fifth woman I introduced him to!”
For those who are unfamiliar with the process: To sign up for matchmaking services, there is usually a screening call, a preliminary match session, contracts and then payments. After this, eligible and approved candidates start dating from the options presented from global databases and an elite matchmaking concierge to deliver results.
Other services Maxion offers include personal styling, a professional photo shoot, dentistry, coaching and rapid transformational therapy with experts as well as anything you need to feel and look your best. She also helps her clients deal with and define their reality. “Why are you single? Ask yourself this question and seriously reflect. If your answer is ‘I don’t know’ you are obviously not ready to date.
Your answer will help you to realize patterns that maybe you didn’t realize were taking place. The next thing to do is rate yourself… No, not on looks but rather on the qualities you possess, the achievements and accomplishments you hold, and your physical and mental health. Add on to that list what you bring to a relationship. Be honest,” concludes Maxion.
So, whether you are ready to hire a matchmaker or just want to get out there and try your luck despite the challenges in our fast paced globalized world, relationship experts recommend beginning with these tips:
Be authentic: While it can be tempting to present a carefully curated version of yourself online, it is important to be honest. This means being true to yourself and your values and not pretending to be someone else. Authenticity has no competition.
Be patient: Finding love takes time, whether you are using dating apps or meeting people in person. Do not get discouraged if it takes a while to find the right person — remember that good things come to those who wait.
Be open-minded: When it comes to finding love, it is important to keep an open mind and be willing to try new things. Do not be too quick to dismiss someone just because they do not fit your preconceived notions of what a partner should be.
Take it offline: While chatting online can be a great way to get to know someone, it is important to take the relationship offline as soon as possible. Meeting in person can help you determine whether there i’s a real connection between you and your potential partner.
By Hermoine Macura-Noble
The first Australian English speaking News Anchor in the Middle East. She is also the Author of Faces of the Middle East and Founder of US-based 501c3 charity – The House of Rest which helps to ease the suffering of victims of war. For more from our Contributing Editor, you can follow her on Instagram, here.
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