Diplomacy, a Transformative Power to Advance Peace, Development, Understanding

The Times Kuwait Report

In a world of growing challenges and accelerating change, female diplomats stand out as a voice for dialogue, a bridge for understanding, and an effective tool for peacemaking and promoting development. In this series of special interviews, we highlight the experiences of pioneering female ambassadors and diplomats representing their countries from the heart of Kuwait. We reveal the inspiring stories behind official positions and the active roles women play in shaping foreign policies, building bridges between peoples, and advocating for their homelands. From challenges to successes, from parliament to embassies, these women tell us a journey filled with determination, belonging, and vision.

On the occasion of the International Day of Women in Diplomacy, The Times Kuwait spoke with Ambassador of Lesotho H.E. Manthabiseng Phohleli on experiences in her journey as a politician and then as a woman diplomat, as well as her commitment to the services of her country.

She began by stating: “As we commemorate the International Day of Women in Diplomacy, I am deeply honored to share reflections on my journey, insights, and aspirations as a woman serving in this noble profession. Diplomacy, to me, is not merely a career; it is a calling, one that demands resilience, empathy, discretion, and an unwavering commitment to represent one’s nation with dignity and integrity.

My path to diplomacy was shaped by a longstanding desire to contribute meaningfully to Lesotho’s global engagement. Prior to assuming my current post, I had the privilege of serving as a Member of the 8th, 9th, and 10th Parliament of the Kingdom of Lesotho, as well as Deputy Minister of Health. These roles deepened my appreciation for governance, legislative responsibility, and the critical importance of serving one’s people with integrity. They also laid a strong foundation for transitioning into diplomacy.

From an early age, I was drawn to international affairs and the idea of building bridges across cultures and borders. I believed then, as I do now, that diplomacy holds the transformative power to advance peace, development, and mutual understanding.”

Speaking about some of the challenges that she faced as a woman politician and diplomat, the ambassador stressed, “As a woman, particularly one representing a small but proud nation such as Lesotho, I have encountered both subtle and overt forms of gender bias in diplomatic spaces.

There have been instances where my presence was underestimated or my leadership quietly scrutinised. Yet, I have viewed such challenges not as deterrents, but as opportunities to demonstrate the value of competence, credibility, and the unique perspectives that women bring to diplomacy. Support from mentors, continuous learning, and an unshakable belief in my purpose have been invaluable in navigating these spaces.”

Expanding on how gender influences diplomatic styles and approaches, Lesotho’s top diplomat in Kuwait noted: “Women often approach diplomacy with a strong orientation towards empathy, collaboration, and consensus-building. While these are not traits exclusive to women, they are frequently more pronounced in women’s leadership styles. Such approaches can foster trust, inclusivity, and sustainable solutions, particularly in the context of conflict resolution, humanitarian diplomacy, and multilateral negotiations.”

Asked about what she considers her most meaningful impact through diplomacy, the ambassador replied, “As this is my first ambassadorial posting, and I have been in office only for a relatively short period, I consider every opportunity to serve as meaningful, whether in engaging with host country counterparts, representing Lesotho’s interests abroad, or advocating for partnerships that can bring value to our people.

Nevertheless, one particularly fulfilling moment involved facilitating conversations that may lead to educational opportunities for Basotho students in the region. While the outcomes are still unfolding, witnessing the potential for young people to access new horizons through diplomacy has affirmed my belief in its power to quietly but significantly transform lives.”

Elaborating on the leadership qualities that she believes are essential for success in diplomacy, the envoy observed, “Integrity, strategic thinking, cultural intelligence, and emotional maturity are indispensable. A diplomat must also be a skilful communicator and an attentive listener. Leadership in diplomacy is about inspiring trust, embracing diverse perspectives, and acting decisively in complex situations. It is not only about representing the government of the day, but also embodying the enduring values and hopes of one’s nation.”

Advising young women aspiring to enter the field of diplomacy, the ambassador disclosed, “To young women with aspirations in diplomacy, I would say: your voice matters, and your presence is vital. Equip yourself through sound education, remain informed, and surround yourself with mentors and allies. Be prepared to confront resistance, but know that authenticity, perseverance, and excellence will always outshine bias. Step forward with confidence, you are clearing the path for others.”

She concluded by asserting that in order for diplomacy to better reflect the diversity of the societies it represents, “Diplomatic institutions must be intentional about inclusion. This means promoting gender equality, creating access for historically underrepresented groups, and nurturing environments where diversity is not tokenized but valued as a strength. When diplomacy truly reflects the diversity of the people it serves, it becomes more just, effective, and responsive to the world’s real and urgent needs.

“The celebration of women in diplomacy is not merely symbolic; it is a call to action. A call to ensure that women are not only present, but are entrusted to lead, to influence global discourse, and to shape a world that is more just, peaceful, and inclusive. I stand proud, not only as the Ambassador of the Kingdom of Lesotho to the State of Kuwait, but as a woman whose journey from Parliament to the diplomatic corps stands as a testament to what is possible when purpose meets opportunity.”

On her tenure and experiences in Kuwait Ambassador Manthabiseng Phohleli noted that Kuwait was very interesting place with new culture and norms and really liked where culture meets religion. She alsodescribed Kuwaiti people as very warm and friendly.