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Stop feeling lonely
May 25, 2014, 4:25 pm
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Loneliness is an unpleasant emotional condition that most people experience from time to time. It is a problem of the modern day society that affects both young and old women.

Start overcoming loneliness today: Loneliness is a passive state that leads to apathy, drains us of energy, and deprives us of an enjoyable life. Start dealing with loneliness today. Stop being passive and take action now.

Change your approach to loneliness: Loneliness is a perfectly natural feeling that all human beings experience. It is not necessarily something negative. Don’t be scared of it and don’t try to deny it or ignore it. Once you have recognized and accepted your loneliness, only then will you be able to change it or turn it into something positive. The first step is telling yourself that you are the only one responsible for your life and for your choices. You can make your life better, fuller and richer or leave it as it is. Accepting loneliness and understanding how it affects your life is the best way to start changing things.

Identify the causes: If you don’t do it, you won’t be able to handle it and you won’t know how deal with other problems associated with it. Examine your life, write down your feelings, analyze them, or talk to someone. Pinpointing the reason of your loneliness will help you decide what steps to take to overcome it.

Learn to be alone: If you are constantly hanging out with people in order to suppress feelings of emptiness and loneliness, you should stop for a moment. The key to overcoming loneliness is not to avoid it, but to accept it and learn to be alone with yourself. Once you understand this and once you manage to spend time alone and focus on your inner being, you will feel a lot better. Facing your emotions, fears and desires will help you get to know yourself better and this will greatly improve your relationships with other people. You will feel more relaxed and self-confident and other people will feel it and respond to it.

Learn to enjoy your own company: Don’t get stuck in routines and don’t let apathy keep you from being active. Transform loneliness into something positive and learn to enjoy your own company. Loneliness can have many advantages. It can bring out your creativity and help you find your true self.

Choose to look at your being lonely in a positive light: There are so many solitary activities that can lift up your spirit, activate your mind and ease your loneliness. Reading, painting, cooking, or gardening, are just some of them. Find something that suits your interests and focus on it. Stop thinking about the past or worrying about the future and start appreciating the present moment.

Loneliness can also help you make constructive changes in your life. When you learn to be happy and comfortable with yourself, you will also find out what you really want from life. And you won’t be feeling lonely any more.

 

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